![]() ![]() And it really messed him up because sex was something that was sacred yadda yadda. So he "slipped" and regretted it after because he would be breaking her heart and all. Apparently, a "9"(I don't know if I can believe his ratings) made a move at him at a party. Ie he didn't bang any of the girls he went on dates with and still enjoyed it.Īnother of those guys was actually talking about how bad his experience with sex was. A little later, still related to the topic, I was talking about dating and sex, and then it became obvious that while not judging me as a non-Christian for my beliefs, they clearly all believed in no sex before marriage. He did talk about how much he enjoyed the dates. I believe someone else brought up the topic, so it's not like he was trying to brag, he was saying it matter-of-factly. He was actually the most alpha/dominant/socially savvy in the group. In the conversation, one of the guys was casually talking about the dates he had with many different girls. I had nothing going on, so I talked with them. I caught up with a bunch of beta Christian guys at a cafe, I knew one of them beforehand. I hadn't really been a social circle kind of person, so I took the redpill at face value. However, a recent experience has really shaken that worldview I had. I also believe the beta is too uncomfortable with his sexuality to communicate to girls a sexual vibe. I also believe the girl doesn't want the guy and she subconsciously realises this and wants to string him along. Let me make a few things clear- I do believe the typical beta wants to bang the girl, unless she's gross or he's religious/gay. The typical cliche is that guys and girls can't be friends because the guy is secretly plotting to get in her pants all the time. Also, relative to the average guy, we have higher T levels and thus have a higher sex drive, likely because of all the working out and eating healthy. I’m not as worried about this specific girl as I am about knowing in general how to handle this sort of situation for the future.I say this because the typical guy on RVF(and other places) seems to be independent, doing his own thing, not really into doing the social circle kind of thing. Should I just go ahead and openly flirt and push things forward with her right in front of him, or wait and do it another time when I catch her alone? As I mentioned I’m also cognizant of not wanting to seem afraid of pursuing what I want just because he’s there. What’s the proper way to handle this situation? In general should you just ignore the orbiter’s existence and be a bit of a dick to him? I know in a club setting the correct behavior is to open and talk to everybody in a group and generally win everybody over when possible, but things would seem to be a bit different here. A bit later I shook the guy’s hand and introduced myself, but I didn’t stay too long, which was also dictated by the logistics of the moment. I didn’t want to seem afraid to chat her up in his presence, so I continued with talking to her. The last time I had approached her when circumstances gave an opportunity I noticed at the last second she was accompanied by an orbiter male friend I had seen her with a lot. I only see her face to face occasionally, and she’s separated from me professionally, which is good in terms of workplace sarging. The specifics of the situation- I got her phone number not too long ago (but for various reasons I haven’t texted her anything and prefer to do my work in person with her), we both have a same favorite area in town, said we would go out to it one day, this past weekend she was busy but with an excuse and she did seem genuine about wanting to do it another time. There’s a good looking girl at work who I’m moving towards.
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